Dummy Mummy Syndrome

How I spent 9/11 ten years later.

2011-09-11T16:04:00.000-07:00

9/11 is the day my generation will never forget. Every generation has at least one and I have two: The Challenger exploding and 9/11. I'll never forget where I was both of those days.

I woke up at 5:30 this morning and had cereal waiting for my boys when they got up about 6:30. We watched cartoons together for about half an hour and then they went to their playroom while I tried watching one of the memorials. At 7:46 EST they called for a moment of silence. Then in the midst of the silence I heard the sound of children laughing.

That's when I realized how I needed to commemorate 9/11. With my family and friends. Not sitting on the couch crying. I couldn't bear listening to all the names, I just couldn't.

We had been planning on painting our house for several weeks now. So friends came over, we all put on old clothes and started painting. We laughed, we talked, and we listened to my boys laughter as they climbed trees, rode their bikes, and played in the pool.

We celebrated life. Because no matter how hard "they" tried, they can't stop us from celebrating life.

2011-09-03T09:04:00.000-07:00

Yeah, I really do suck at blogging. But that's because there has been so many changes in my life.

Life EXPLODED. Notice the all caps? That's cuz it was a level 5 explosion and everything changed. I had a great job, nice house, family all living together on one street and one person's decision changed it all.

I'm not going into details, because they suck and make me bitter. So let's just say that after the explosion dust settled...

I quite my job.
I moved my family.
I started over.

And everything is 150% better.

We have a beautiful home. Home, not house.
I have a wonderful job that I totally lucked into.
My kids are in a GREAT school.

And I'm nowhere near the explosion site.

Can't ask for more than that.

I'll try to do better from now on blogging. Life with twins is an everyday wonder. And I want to share the beauty of it.

Ok, I suck at Blogging but here's why...

2009-10-02T09:29:00.000-07:00

Sometimes there is just too much going on in a person's life and not enough time to sit and write about it.

Family emergencies crop up.

Health problems blast out of nowhere.

Family members get on their high horse and need knocking down.

Work is overwhelming.

or...

Life is just too damn busy at times.

September was all of the above for me. About the only thing in my life that hasn't exploded or imploded are my kids...and that's just a matter of time.

So...

I'll be back later with more chit chat.

I LOVE vintage!

2009-08-27T17:48:00.001-07:00

I sell vintage online on etsy.com. My shop is VintageTreasures4You

I was just told that my Lazy Susan is featured on the front page of My Handmade Registry! This is just totally cool!

Thanks Dorana!

Twins + Sharpie = BAD

2009-08-27T04:25:00.001-07:00

So my twins found a blue sharpie marker.

The sharpie marker found...

The chaise
The carpet
Their legs
Their arms
Their face
Their hands
and their hair...

TwinMommie - 0
Twins - 1

*picture taken after scrubbing them in the tub*

He quit...

2009-08-14T20:01:00.001-07:00

going to the potty.

Mack, aka Baby B, was doing so well potty training. Then he quit. He refuses to pee in his potty. He will walk around in pain until you put a pullup on him and then...voila! He goes. In the pullup.

Mick, aka Baby A, goes all the time. He's PROUD of going in his potty! He pees and then he brings the insert to me. Of course I praise and smile and laugh. And it makes him even prouder.

I'm going to start giving M&M's to Mick everytime he goes. Let's see if that kickstarts Mack into going again when he doesn't get M'ies too.

Anyone ideas out there to help?

They went to bed on their own!

2009-08-08T20:14:00.000-07:00

It's a first! They actually went to bed on their own!

No asking.
No pleading.
No begging.

Just crawled into bed and said "nite nite".

A day for miracles.

A day of miracles.

Very Cool Items

2009-08-08T14:11:00.000-07:00

I love etsy, especially the creativity of both artisans and the vintage world. Here's a gorgeous treasury of chocolate and blue. When you get a chance, go check out Etsy and see what you'll fall in love with. Click on the picture to see everything up close and personal.

Sheesh!

2009-08-06T17:03:00.000-07:00

There's an alleged lunatic of female origins who is screaming FRAUD all over the internet.

Why, you ask?

Well, about a year ago she was caught buying artists' work and then reselling it claiming she had made it in an overseas location.

Well, come to find out one of those artisans found beads that they made, that this lunatic of female origin was now selling as her own.

BUSTED!

Well, a huge brouhaha broke out as you can imagine and this alleged lunatic of female origin was banned from several selling sites.

Fast forward one year.

Well she's back! Only now she is making up accounts on etsy.com and artfire.com, buying items from glass artisans, bakers, and soapmakers and posting their information on a FRAUD blog.

Pot meet kettle.

Anyways, if this story has intrigued you check out these sites for the TRUTH and nothing but the TRUTH!

Artisan Fraud Truth Report

Unofficial Etsy News

Consumerist.com

The best proof of all!

Phew and it's almost 5 months later

2009-08-06T16:44:00.000-07:00

How time does fly! I could have sworn that I'd posted since March 17 but there goes that DMS again...

So last night I'm giving the twins a bath and Mick (that's baby A aka older by 1 minute) lays down and on his belly is this HUGE horrid sickly looking green bruise. I lean down to look closer....and....

No, he didn't pee on me.

He has bruises running up his thighs too.

So I call my mom, who keeps them while I'm at work, and ask her if he had fallen. She said no, and I told her she needed to come up here and look and these huge honking bruises.

So she trots on up here (it's like a 1 minute walk) and looks him over (no he didn't pee on her either). He's not in any pain, it's not sore or anything. And we're both perplexed.

Then we see the pullups.

Hmmmm.....

Yep, the ink on the pullups had sweated all over him while he was outside playing!

Maybe I need to check and see if they were made in China.

Dressing Myself

2009-03-17T17:29:00.000-07:00

is one of the hardest things I've had to learn since retiring from the Air Force. See, I'm used to wearing a uniform. I get up in the morning and the only thing I had to think about was...wear my hair french braided, ponytail, or bun.

No worries about what to wear, if it matched, or looked good.

Cuz I'm sorry, no matter how great your body is, you just can't tell in uniform.

Sorry folks. That's an urban myth.

Ok, back to dressing myself.

Now I live in the civilian world. High heels, dress pants, nice shirt, hair, makeup, etc. All that jazz.

I used to think that I was good at dressing.

I've learned that I'm not.

This morning I got up, looked in my closet, and decided to wear black pants with a nice black shirt.

Guess what?

It didn't match.

Nope, sure didn't.

You can't wear a black tweed pant with an off black shirt. It doesn't work.

Did you know there are different shades of black? Now blue, yeah, blue has different shades. So does pink, and green, and red. But black?

Who the hell knew black could really be not-black?

Then I realized it was St. Patty's Day so I found a shirt with green in it.

Now, what to wear tomorrow...

Time Change

2009-03-13T19:00:00.000-07:00

And it's finally Friday.

Thank goodness.

I hate the time change.

Scratch that.

I hate the spring forward time change.

I don't like losing time.

However it's doing wonders for my boys. They get to stay up later (they think) and they sleep a little longer (I think) in the morning.

I like to get up early, like 5am on the weekends. Why, you ask? Because I get an hour of quiet time before they wake up.

An hour to:

Drink coffee
Smoke a cigarette (yes I smoke, don't lecture me)
Relax
Play a game on the computer
Get their cereal ready
Get their sippy cups ready
Wake up.

An hour to myself that doesn't come but once a day if I'm lucky.

Then they wake up.

And the excitement begins.

Because everything is new again to them. They love watching Mickey Mouse Playhouse on DVD. They sit with their cup of cheerios and sippy cup of milk and ooh and aaahhh over Mickey and his pals. They jump up and down and laugh like they have never laughed before.

And I clean up cheerios.

But that's ok.

Because the joy on their faces means the world to me.

I still don't like the time change.

But for them...it's worth it.

Spring is in the air

2009-03-10T17:41:00.001-07:00

And the boys want to do nothing but play outside!

Which is great for letting them run off their energy.

But did you know that two year olds have boundless energy?

They do.

Really.

Lots and LOTS of energy.

We get home at 6:45 pm. We get out of the car and immediately they run for their playhouse. Arms full of groceries and other crap (you moms know what I'm talking about), keys held between your teeth, and trying to call the boys to come inside.

Not happening.

Drop everything on the stairs and start chasing! Which is kind of hard to do when you have a gravel driveway, high heels, and two active little boys.

Finally get them inside 20 minutes later, go outside to gather up everything you dropped and see the contents of your purse spilled everywhere.

Finally get inside only to realize you can't find your keys.

Toss your hands up in the air and go watch Mickey Mouse with your kids.

Hear them laugh, giggle, and scream out when something excites them.

Feel them cuddle up next to you as you all watch and enjoy the snuggles.

A perfect end to a hectic day.

What is Dummy Mummy Syndrome?

2009-03-09T17:54:00.000-07:00

When I was pregnant with my twins I watched Discovery Health Channel like it was the ONLY channel on TV. One day a show came on called "Yummy Mummy". Of course I just had to watch it.

It was all about just how yummy you are after you have a baby.

Boy was I disappointed.

My belly did not go back flat. Stretch a balloon to hold over 14 lbs of baby at one time and see if it goes back to the original size. NOT!

Makeup? What was that? Who had time to put mascara on? I was lucky to brush my teeth!

Pretty clothes? I couldn't get into a pair of prepregnancy jeans to save my life. I was still wearing maternity pants six months after they were born!

Yummy Mummy, my ass.

Times past, first thing in the morning I'd make the coffee and while it was perking, brush my toofies, brush my hair, wash my face, and then relax with a cup of coffee.

After the boys were born? Stumble into the kitchen to make coffee, go check on screaming baby, put toothpaste on the toothbrush, go check on other screaming baby. Turn the fauccet on to wash face, hear strange gurgling sounds in nursery, run back in there to see, start back to the bathroom, both babies start screaming when you leave, turn around, cuddle both babies until they finally go back to sleep, stumble into the kitchen, pour a cup of coffee...

Only to find you forgot to put coffee grounds in the filter.

And that my friends is Dummy Mummy Syndrome.

And I got it times two!

Welcome to my life with twins...